tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19931766.post4019264074745336190..comments2023-10-18T04:07:14.699-05:00Comments on Avaciously Yours: Today's Huh? Moment.Abshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04252591191993842032noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19931766.post-91316842867953570582010-06-05T16:31:35.279-05:002010-06-05T16:31:35.279-05:00Awesome that Ms. Wilska found your entry and was a...Awesome that Ms. Wilska found your entry and was able to clarify a bit -- and so pleasantly!<br /><br />I've known for a long time that a lot of clutter is tasks undone -- I imagine the little project piles glaring or sighing at me, and I feel my blood pressure going up when there are half-done things strewn around the house.<br /><br />Now I have that one large worktable in my study for project piles, from which I can pick and choose. Mending. Beading. Photo albums. Letters to reply to. And books unread are allowed to pile on my nightstand as high as my lampshade bottom and that's it -- otherwise some get put back on shelves for another long while, or returned to the library. <br /><br />If I'm so disinterested in a project or book that it's been sitting around for months and months, time to store it away. I just did that with the wedding dress seam binding project, sorry to say. My enthusiasm faded quickly. It's back in the garment bag, and my study feels so much lighter and tidier.<br /><br />-SECPAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19931766.post-37974228808338948612010-06-05T14:07:53.577-05:002010-06-05T14:07:53.577-05:00Dear Emily,
Thank you for your response; I am all ...Dear Emily,<br />Thank you for your response; I am all too aware of the nature of interview-to-article--that is why I identified the article as "CNN's article" rather than indicating the contradition was yours! Sometimes I don't know why I read these advice-based articles on online news sites--they are inevitably so pared down they aren't terribly useful. As I read I sympathized with you because the writer set up such a logical issue in the rhetoric (I'm a teacher of writing--does it show?).<br /><br />I appreciate your perspective, I really do. I know some people love or wish to hire someone to help them organize. I, however, shake my head in bafflement. My mind doesn't work that way. When I do decide to rearrange cupboards, or when I was forced to redo my clothing storage due to a leak, half the fun was doing the problem solving myself, and working out how I wanted it to be. Giving myself reminders or hiring assistance would send me off the rails with stress! :) I'm a "nester"--I dig myself into a space and arrange it to my sole liking, with objects of comfort and sentimental value around me. I've come to understand that this is part of my own personality and I like it. <br /><br />I very much appreciate your clarifying your views for me (and my few blog readers)! Thank you for your input!Abshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04252591191993842032noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19931766.post-34104428217894250282010-06-04T18:40:26.793-05:002010-06-04T18:40:26.793-05:00Hi Abs,
As is true of many magazine articles, ala...Hi Abs,<br /><br />As is true of many magazine articles, alas, a 30-minute conversation with the writer often gets distilled into a few short lines of text, so a lot of the context and details of that conversation are ultimately lost.<br /><br />I tell my clients and the readers of my blog--to an annoyingly repetitive end sometimes--that organization isn't about perfection, and often has nothing at all to do with neatness. "A tidy space" here was the author's phrase, not mine. My message: often the stuff that becomes clutter in our lives is hanging around because we feel like we need to do something with it--books to read, projects to complete, clothes to wear (someday), and on and on and on.<br /><br />I like the goal-setting part of organizing because it helps give some shape and direction to what can often feel like an overwhelming and rudderless process. When people try to get organized because they feel like they *should*, it can be a pretty painful experience. When they're working toward something, though--whether that's being able to have friends over without frantically shoving stuff into closets, or being able to get out of the house in the morning with less chaos and less stress, or simply having a home that feels more comfortable, whether or not it's "tidy"--it's often easier to stay motivated and engaged.<br /><br />I hope this helps give a bit more background to those short blurbs in the original article. It sounds like you're pretty happy with your living space as it is, which, to me, means you're organized--so cheers to that!<br /><br />Best,<br />EmilyEmilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09246087955981774501noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19931766.post-88604177590594885952010-06-02T21:04:21.893-05:002010-06-02T21:04:21.893-05:00I would love to see some snapshots of your living ...I would love to see some snapshots of your living space.hadjarehttp://wazika.net/noreply@blogger.com